My advice from the loss and research I did yesterday is to NOT use a search engine, especially sites that say "top whatever for 2022". Most sites are questionable at best and all of their links will steal your money. Even one that has a photo and bio of the supposed page author is going to be fake, it's just too easy of an opportunity for thieves to pass up.
Personally, I use a Ledger Nano, and don't recommend the original because of too little memory and the font size requires a very good set of reading glasses to use. Many accounts can be created on it so the same address never has to be used twice. No TOR option with it, but a good VPN is always used. Never a cheap VPN. Brave is good, but I always use TOR when shopping or even visiting this site. Not really visiting onion sites - but nice to have an advertisement free version of the NY Times onion site.
As far as finding p2p for non-KYC, everything worth considering seemed to have a 5-7% markup and still required a lot of work. An ATM is going to take ~14% to start with. After taking my loss yesterday, that 5-7% would have been a bargain. Not a huge loss, but well over $100.