As with everyone else, we’re so sorry for you’re loss. Being together as long as you have been with Danny, is something I can only hope for me and my wife - my best friend. I’d be absolutely lost without her as well.
Give yourself adequate time to grieve, take care of yourself as best you can, and know that many of us here are thinking of you during this horrible loss you’re having to deal with and go through right now.
It sounds like he was a wonderful man and great husband and friend. I’m so sorry and it breaks my heart to read this. Take care
ETA: I never tell or talk about this with anyone, but maybe it will be appropriate in this thread.
I lost my dad, Father’s Day, June 15th, 2003. He was only 54 at the time, and in great shape. I was 29 at the time, we worked in the family business together, golfed 3-5 days a week, he was my best friend, and those last couple years were the best times and relationship I had with him.
He was at my aunt’s house visiting her and watching golf, The Master’s if I remember right, when my aunt said all of a sudden he stood up, and then fell flat on his face.
Dissecting Aorta. He didn’t have a chance. Worst part was,,, I was just thinking I need to call him to wish him the happiest of Father’s Days, when my aunt called me instead with the news. I didn’t even get to say goodbye
I almost puked, felt gut punched, and cursed God for taking him from me too early. I cried for 3 days straight, feeling guilty and angry that I couldn’t even hug him one more time, or tell him how much I loved him, and that he meant the world to me. I always looked up to him; he was my HERO.
I guess all I’m trying to say is I can relate and somewhat understand what you’re going through.
It seems so cruel when our loved ones are ripped away from us like that. It took me a few years before I could talk about him without tears welling up in my eyes.
I still miss him, and pay my respects every 6/15. I will never forget the times we had and shared together.
I’m sure - over time, it will get easier for you.
I’m so sorry again that this happened, and hope somehow you can find some comfort remembering the best times you had with him. My heart is broken for you today, after reading this and knowing what it’s like to lose someone so close to you. I will mourn with you today, and it also makes me think of my dad, and I wish you comfort, peace, & happiness to come to you when you are ready, knowing they can never be replaced, but also knowing how great it was with the time you had with him. God bless and take care.
please stay strong
I lost my wife too recently of 30 yrs. You never get over it obviously. If you ever wish to chat, just pm me. Steve
